Same-Sex Divorce Lawyer in Moorestown

Compassionate Guidance For LGBTQ+ Couples in Transition

Ending a same-sex marriage can feel overwhelming. You may be trying to protect your children, your finances, and your sense of stability all at once. At the same time, you may worry about whether the legal system, and your lawyer, will truly understand your family and treat you with respect.

At William Kirby Law, Family Law Attorneys, we focus on helping families move through divorce with honesty, care, and clear direction. Our background shapes the way we approach every case, with discipline, straightforward communication, and deep respect for our clients.

To schedule a consultation with our same-sex divorce lawyer in Moorestown and the surrounding area, call (215) 515-9901.

What Same-Sex Divorce Involves

Same-sex couples often face all the same issues as any other divorcing spouses, and there are some additional layers that matter in New Jersey. You might have built a life together long before you could legally marry, or you might be raising children where only one of you is a biological or adoptive parent. These details can have a real impact on how your case is presented.

New Jersey applies the same statutory framework to same-sex and different-sex divorces. The court generally looks at factors like the length of the marriage, each spouse’s income, and the needs of any children. In a same-sex divorce, it often becomes especially important to tell the story of the full relationship, not only the years after a marriage certificate was issued.

Many LGBTQ+ clients also carry concerns about bias or feeling like they must educate professionals about their family. Our goal is to remove that burden. We work to create space where you can speak freely about your relationship, your children, and your goals, and know that our team respects who you are and how your family is built.

How Our Team Supports You

Here are some of the ways we work to support clients in a same-sex divorce:

• Listening carefully to your goals and concerns before recommending any course of action.
• Explaining New Jersey divorce procedures and likely timelines in everyday language.
• Preparing you for settlement discussions or court hearings so you know what to expect.
• Managing filings, deadlines, and communication with the other side to reduce your stress.
• Staying mindful of the emotional weight of the process, while keeping your long-term interests at the center of our work.

Our intention is to be the steady, respectful presence beside you, from the first consultation through the final order, so you can focus more of your energy on your life outside the courtroom.

Key Issues in Same-Sex Divorce

For parents, the central questions usually involve legal custody, parenting time, and decision-making for children. New Jersey courts generally look at the best interests of the child, and they consider many factors, such as the child’s relationship with each parent and each parent’s ability to meet the child’s needs. In families where one parent is not a biological or adoptive parent, it can be especially important to talk with a lawyer about how the law may apply and what options might exist.

Financial matters are also a major concern. New Jersey follows an equitable distribution system for dividing marital property and debts. The court typically looks at assets and obligations acquired during the marriage and decides on a division that it considers fair, not necessarily a strict fifty-fifty split. In long-term same-sex relationships that began before legal marriage was available, we often work with clients to present the history of their partnership so the court can understand the full context of how property was accumulated.

Spousal support, sometimes called alimony, is another area that can affect your long-term financial picture. Courts in this state consider factors such as each spouse’s income, earning capacity, and contributions to the marriage. We discuss these elements with you in detail so you have a realistic sense of what support might look like, whether you may pay or receive it.

Before your first meeting, it can help to start thinking about questions like:

• What are your most important goals for your children’s day-to-day lives and long-term stability?
• Which assets, such as a home or retirement account, are most important for your future security?
• How each spouse has contributed financially and non-financially to the relationship over time.
• Whether there are urgent concerns, such as safety or immediate housing, that need attention first.

We do not expect you to arrive with all the answers. Our role is to walk through these issues with you, explain how New Jersey law may apply, and help you make informed choices that align with your values and priorities.

Frequently Asked Questions

Will a New Jersey court treat our same-sex divorce differently?

New Jersey courts generally apply the same legal standards to same-sex and different-sex divorces. The key is how the facts of your relationship and family are presented. We work to explain your history clearly so the court can understand your situation and make decisions based on the law.

What if I am not the biological parent of our child?

Your rights can depend on factors such as adoption, prior court orders, and your role in the child’s life. It is important to review your specific circumstances with a lawyer. We discuss your family structure in detail and explain what legal options may be available to protect your relationship.

How will your team help reduce conflict in my divorce?

We strive to keep the focus on long-term solutions rather than short-term victories. That means clear communication, careful preparation, and a willingness to negotiate when it serves your interests. At the same time, we are prepared to stand firm on issues that matter most to your future and your children.

Can I meet with you quickly if my situation changes?

We offer same-day appointments when possible, particularly when urgent issues arise. If something changes suddenly, such as a dispute about parenting time or a spouse leaving the home, we work to speak with you promptly so you can understand your options before reacting.

What should I bring to my first consultation?

It often helps to bring basic financial documents, any existing court or adoption orders, and a list of your main questions. If you do not have everything yet, you can still meet with us. We will explain what information will be useful and how to gather it over time.

Take The Next Step Toward Clarity

If you are considering ending a same-sex marriage, you do not have to figure everything out on your own. Meeting with a lawyer who understands New Jersey family law and the realities of LGBTQ+ families can give you clearer choices and a sense of direction.

To schedule a consultation with our same-sex divorce attorney serving Moorestown and the surrounding area, call (215) 515-9901.